Thanks Dawson. This advice helped me because I actually went through something similar to Alicia, because I am the same age and had a guy that kinda pushed me to do stuff I've never done before. And the kind of guy this was the type of guy you described,  and I wish that I hadn't done stuff with him, because it left me hurt still a year later. I've finally moved on, but I still have a little hurt inside, and I hope that Alicia will move On and forget about that guy, because she deserves better, and so do I.

thank you Dawson. I do belive all the adviceyou give is strongly taken.im now 15 and i went through this when i was 13,now im 15. I have been through this same problem and well now i regret it, allthough i shouldnt.I dont think i will be able to trust when a guy says "i love you". Usuly when they say that all they want is sex or some kind of pleasr.It is kind of hard to get over when something like that happens but in the long run it some what overcomes you.so Alicia everything will be okay...i promis.

my mom always told me this: "any boy who forces a girl to do things she doesn't want to do, means he doesn't really love her" and every time she told me i always thought 'wow shes crazy" but once i really thought about it i realized she was right

Boys are idiots. Simple enough, we have to live with it, but when one tries to force you to do something you DO NOT want to do is when I draw the line. Forcing someone to do something they don't want to do is wrong! Esspecially in this case.

I agree with you Dawson, the idiot- or boy, went all sappy (As I put it) by going "I love you, and if you love me you'll do whatever I want!" Then Alicia got all confused and- Did nasty stuff she didn't want to do.

God people like this seriously make me angry!

Meredith

Age: 13

I had a very similar experience. I was at a party with who I thought was my friend. He told me he wanted to tell me something in private and asked if we could go somewhere quiet. He lead me into a bedroom, told me he loved me, and kissed me. I told him I didn't feel the same way, I didn't. but he got angry and I didn't know about his anger issues. He raped me. It took me YEARS to get over it. I was depressed, then one day I turned on the radio and heard you on the radio. Though you were not talking to me directly I was talked out of doing something very stupid, and I thank you very much now. I do not go telling people for attention, but I am not afraid to tell my story anymore when I need to. I am living a happy life. Though I still have few hauntings of my memory and still some sleepless nights, I am okay. :)

Oh gosh. I know so many people like this. Sometimes I almost do the bad things the guys want me too do, but instead I think to myself. "Why in the world would I do something like that to someone I don't love, and they sure as hell do not love me. They just want to use me, and I'm positive I'll feel like crap afterwards." That's why I'm still a virgin, and I still am happy for my body.