Well, I am a man, hardly. I love the girl I'm with, and although we have gone all the way, I love her more and more as the days go by, simply because I'm "snake bitten" myself, I just wanna settle down aned swallow my pride and love her, you know, a man could love a different girl every night and be called a man for the rest of his life, but it takes a real man to love the same girl every night for the rest of her life. I honestly have wanted to cheat because they look so good, but I'd hate to tear someone apart.. and cheating thoughts have completely left me. But on the other side of things, girls cheat too.. And it's horrible. I've beaten down many men to this day over a girl. It's not worth it. They're better friends than enemies.

Many will disagree with me but I do not understand why someone would get in a romantic relationship with someone in the armed services knowing that this person will be away fighting for our freedom for an extended period or, even worse, killed in action.

Hey I'm new in this n I just got out of a relationship n after I broke it off I found out that by his two roommates that he cheated n he wasn't the person who I thought he was n is hard because eventhough he cheated I kinda don't believe but I texted him telling him I had found out but he never replied....does that mean he did cheat??  I found out he started to date one of the girls that confess to me that she just to sleep with him when he was still with me n is just hard to believe everything I'm finding out n I really loved him

I would like to say that it takes a stronger spouse to have the other spouse in the military.

My husband is in the military and it's hard at best. we have been together 5 years on and off. We had a son together when I was 18, got engaged September 2009, moved in together November 2009, bought our first house June 2010, and got married august 2010 (I am now 21).  Its never easy when my husband is gone a week, 2 weeks, a month, or even a year but I loved him before he was in the army and it makes me proud that my husband serves this country. I hate the cliché about army wives being cheaters because I would never do anything to hurt him (we are having our third deployment next year). So yeah, I miss him but I also know he is the best thing that ever happened to me and I would never do anything to lose him. He's more than just my husband, he is my best friend. as corny as it sounds it is true. I may get let down by friends but he is always there for me. Of course there are days when I cry and think life would be easier if he was a civilian but honestly, in this economy, this is the best job he could have for our family. There are risks but he chose this life for us, he is the one risking everything for us.. How could you not love having a spouse that would give their life for yours? So I am patiently, hopelessly awaiting his soon return. I love my Sgt. with all my heart!

Hey, I believe all the way with military relationships. My sister met her now-husband freshman year in college... They dated for TEN YEARS before he proposed. This included moving all over the country, a year in Iraq, and then heartbreak when his unit was extended for another year and a half. Losing friends and gaining friends. Not understanding each other and finishing each others sentences. My sister married her best friend, and if she passed him over because he was in the Army, then she'd probably be a different person, since there has never been a 'before' Pat.

like this song says: we miss them www.youtube.com/watch

My boyfriend is in the military. It's hard because he's gone a lot and now I just find out that he's going to Germany for about 2 weeks to a month. I'm trying to find a way to go with him. XD

So does anyone agree with "once a cheater always a cheater?" can someone really change?

I asked my friend this question and what he said made a lot of sense to me. He said that they got caught up in their emotions when they got married,  and never really understood what Love really is. Love isn't your fluttering or the elation you get when your attracted to somebody. That''s just your body's physical response to a possible mate. Love has nothing to do with gender or anything physical. When you have a child you'll understand that no matter what they look, what they do, or even how much they hurt you, or how imperfect they are you will always love them. People are attracted to one another and get all these feelings of elation's and mistake it for love. When these feelings wear away they seek something new.

I was reciently cheated on with one of my best relationships i have ever had. He cheated on me with my best friend and we had no idea about each other until, i noticed that on her facebook page it said she was in a relationship and i asked her with who and she said his name, i was so sad i was depresed for a week. i didnt talk to anyone i didnt eat, sleep or dink anything but water. and then  one day i went up to him and confrunted him with my bestfriend right there with me. i dumped him but she is still with him. i still lke him but now i have a new boyfriend. my moto is: once a cheater, always a cheater

I believe that if someone truly loves you, it is NOT worth the risk of loosing you.  Each time you choose to cheat, you risk getting caught and hence loosing that person.  If I am worth that risk, then you do not love me and bu bye.  I think if each person thought about the risk they were taking, maybe they would think twice. And if each woman looked at why the person was willing to take the risk, she would realize he didn't love her and dump him.  Men, IF you love her -better think about whether or not cheating is worth the risk.

I know a woman whose husband is in jail for a crime he didn't commit. He was in the wrong place at the wrong time and messing with the wrong people. She has supported him all the way. She visits him every other day with the kids and he calls her every day and their love is stronger than ever. My dad really admires her for that.