I Hate My School

What do I do: I am in Junior High…and I hate my school

  1. Junior High can be one of the most challenging times in a person’s life. It is very important for you to remember that nearly every Junior High students at some time believes that he/she does not belong. In other words, much of you what you are feeling is probably very normal. Remember, the truth is that many other students may be feeling the same thing about being in Junior High.
  2. If you are feeling like you don’t belong, consider finding a school-sponsored club, sports team, or musical arts class. Allow yourself to experience some new things. You might find that the activity opens new doors for friendships and uncovers a passion for you.
  3. Make it a point to talk to a trusted teacher or the school counselor about your feelings. Believe it or not, most teachers and school counselors do care about you and want to help you in any way that you can.
  4. Be aware that it might not be school that is the problem. Are you having problems at home with your parents? Have you recently had some big changes in your life like moving or the death of a family member? If so, these things can make school very difficult. Talk to an adult about these issues and ask them to help you with them.
  5. Remember, school is very important for your future success and should be taken seriously. If you are struggling with grades or cannot keep up with your work you should take advantage of the resources available to you, such as the school counselor.
  6. One of the most important things for you to try to keep in mind is that in Junior High things change very quickly. So hang in there and keep working hard.
  7. Call the HopeLine (1-800-394-HOPE) to talk or visit www.dmlive.com to chat with a live person.
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