Couple making out. Is it love or lust?

Am I in Lust?

Don’t Confuse Love and Lust I find so many people who call my radio show confused between lust and love. Love is the most abused word in the human language often being used instead of what it really is lust. Lust can cause deep confusion and destruction. So often I will hear a caller say, “I am…

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4 Challenges To Being Just Friends

“Just Friends” I’m more convinced than ever that every person needs at least one Just Friends experience. I’ve been blogging a lot lately about Just Friends. A Just Friend is a friend from the opposite sex you treat just like any friend, but without the girlfriend/boyfriend drama. I’m more convinced than ever that every person…

really just friends

Just Friends

I get tons of calls on my radio show, Dawson McAllister Live. Many of them are about boyfriend/girlfriend and broken hearts. Sometimes, the consequences of dating can be horrific, like unwanted pregnancy, STDs, and abuse. I find myself saying to so many of these callers, You don’t need a boyfriend. You just need a friend…

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Friends With Benefits

I have decided to blog on the whole subject of “friends with benefits” because it has become so huge in our culture, especially among high school and college students. Plus, the phrase itself got me thinking. I mean, who really benefits? Is it a 50/50 benefit? What is the actual BENEFIT? Can there be friends…