Question 1

Why Life Is Not Fair

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Life is not fair. Here are 3 reasons why with advice on how to deal with it.
#1: Life is outside of your control
#2: Life rewards performance, not desire.
#3: Life allows multiple points of view.
Here is advice on how to cope with it.

Question 2

Dating 101: Why Do People Get Jealous?

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The root of most jealousy is insecurity.  Most often people get jealous because they lack the confidence to believe that they are good enough for their partner. So they are continually suspicious and tend to overreact to the slightest things. So What Can you do?

Question 3

Can You Save Your Relationship After Cheating?

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"Whether a relationship can be saved after cheating is complicated, and depends on the answers to questions like:

- What happened?
- Were you safe with your partner?
- How long has it been?
- Have you sought advice?

It's important not to rush back into a relationship after cheating has happened. especially if there's any risk that the relationship is only a cycle of cheating and abuse."

Question 4

My Boyfriend or Girlfriend Is Cheating: What Do I Do?

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"If your girlfriend or boyfriend is cheating, you don't have to deal with this painful challenge alone. 

- Acknowledge the Truth
- Create Space for Your Healing
- Nurture Yourself Emotionally and Spiritually
- Ask for Help

Support is available to help heal heartbreak after cheating. With time, you can rebuild hope and trust in people."

Question 5

Relationship Help: I Feel Like People Don’t Respect Me

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People have no respect for you if they are treating you badly without caring how you feel, or if they are constantly putting you down. You might be disrespected due to:

- Having a Bad Reputation
- Being Bullied or Abused
- Because You're in a Toxic Friendship or Relationship

With support, you can learn how to set healthy boundaries and choose relationships that prioritize mutual respect.

Question 6

Is Pornography Addiction Harming Your Relationship?

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"Porn use has been linked to unhealthy emotional patterns and relationship issues, including:

- Secrecy: Hiding porn addiction means you cannot be truly open with your partner.
- Shame: If using porn makes you feel ashamed, you might feel more withdrawn from your boyfriend or girlfriend than normal. 
- Fantasizing: Pornography creates unrealistic expectations of sex and physical intimacy that can strain or break a relationship."

Question 7

Red Flags, but Married Him Anyway

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Some people get divorced because abuse makes them feel unsafe. Others feel trapped by their partner’s addiction. Perhaps there has been infidelity in the relationship. Whatever the reason, divorce can be devastating for everyone in a family. Make sure you have the support you need. If you don’t know where to turn, start with TheHopeLine.  Jewel did. Here's her story.

Question 8

Moving On: How to Properly Grieve and Heal After a Breakup

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There's no one right answer to "how long does it take to get over a breakup?" Grieving is different for everyone, depending on the situation and your personality. But knowing sadness won't last forever, and that you are still worthy of love after a breakup, can help you move forward with healing your heart sooner.

Question 9

Bible Verses About Liars &#8211; What Does the Bible Say?

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"The Lord detests lying lips, but he delights in people who are trustworthy" (Prov 12:22). Understanding why lying is a sin means we also trust God to protect our hearts and relationships with his laws. God also blesses honesty and truthfulness with peace in our hearts and minds.

Question 10

Bible Verses for Cheating &#038; Infidelity &#8211; Help from God

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The Bible commands believers, "You must not commit adultery" (Exodus 20:14). But there are more Bible verses about cheating, infidelity, and how to have healthier relationships. Proverbs 6:32 says, "The man who commits adultery is an utter fool, for he destroys himself". It's important to heed God's word when it comes to understanding the spiritual consequences of cheating.

Question 11

15 Signs Your BF-GF May Be Cheating On You

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Test Your Relationship Against These 15 Signs Your Bf/Gf May Be Cheating on You:

1. Emotional Distance 
2. Sensing Something Is Wrong
3. Spending Less Time Together
4. They Don't Invite You to Do Things
5. Sudden Schedule Changes
6. ""You Should Spend Time with Other People""
7. Secret Keeping
8. Unusual Phone Activity
9. They Don't Confide in You Anymore
10. Intense Anxiety and Irritability 

Read 5 more signs.

Question 12

5 Life-Changing Steps for the Cheater

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If you've cheated, it's important to respect your partner's wishes for how to move forward, but there are things you can do to mend the relationship. 
- Acknowledge you messed up and seek forgiveness. 
- End all communication with the person you cheated with. 
- Give your partner time to heal. 
- Answer their questions honestly.
Get more tips to heal after cheating from TheHopeLine.

Question 13

How to Find a Meaningful Relationship

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The keys to finding a meaningful relationship are:
- Prioritizing Your Values
- Taking Your Time to Get to Know People
- Not Rushing Intimacy
- Being Aware of Your Own Hang Ups in Relationships and Working to Have a Healthier View of Yourself and Others
Get dating advice and mentoring to build healthier relationships now at TheHopeLine.

Question 14

Your BF/GF is Cheating on You&#8230;Now What?

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If you have ever uncovered the painful truth that the person you feel you love is cheating on you, you probably asked yourself: What am I supposed to do now? What should my response be to this betrayal? Learn how to respond to cheating in a healthy way that won't further damage you emotionally.

Question 15

Cheating &#8211; Why Not Just End the Relationship?

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Whether or not to end a relationship after cheating is up to the people in the relationship. Sometimes the cheating happens because people are afraid to end it. Other times, it doesn't feel emotionally safe to get back together after cheating, or people cheat because they're ready to move on. Finding someone you trust to talk about cheating can help.

Question 16

My Boyfriend Cheated on Me &#8211; 6 Things NOT To Do

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Here Is What Not To Do When You've Been Cheated On

1. Don't Get Even: Getting even risks causing more harm. Don't lower yourself by retaliating, but say to yourself, ”I'm too good for that.”
2. Don't Rebound: Rushing into another relationship doesn't leave you time to heal.
3. Get Support: You have some deep pain to work through after cheating. Talk to a mentor, counselor, or therapist you can trust, rather than trying to handle it yourself.

Question 17

5 Reasons Why Guys Cheat on GFs &#038; What It Means

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Cheating is never okay, but it's natural to wonder "why do men cheat, and why have so many guys I know cheated on their girlfriends?". Every situation is different, but I've noticed some dominant reasons for cheating include: guys (or girls) are insecure, there's drama without clear communication, or people don't break up when it's time, before cheating happens.

Question 18

Why Lust is Destructive

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Lust literally means over-desire. It is when you take something that is good, twist it, and add cravings to it so you are consumed with it until you are gratified. Lust harms our relationships because when we act out of lust, a person’s body is far more important to us than his or her soul.

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