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controlling friends

Letting Friends Control Your Relationship

Sometimes friends are able to see if you’re doing something stupid, such as getting rid of what they think is a really good girlfriend. Should Friends Control Your Relationships? I’m excited about the many questions you continue to ask me about the opposite sex. As you learn more and more about what makes a healthy…

moving beyond friendship

Moving Beyond Just Friends

When Should You Move Beyond Just Friends? Is it possible you are falling in love with your best friend? When did it suddenly become a romance? Can you relate to Joshua? Joshua asked: I really like this girl and she really likes me. We keep telling each other we love one another and we would like…

When You Feel Like You’re Not Good Enough For Someone

“I Feel Like I Am Not Good Enough for my Boyfriend/Girlfriend” Amelia asked: “I’ve been with my boyfriend for about three months now and he’s great, but I just feel like I’m not good enough for him. I’m 19, he’s 21, and he’s perfect, but I always feel like I’m being compared to his ex-girlfriend from…

provocative dress

Is it Bad to Dress Provocatively?

Answers to Tough Questions I am continuing to answer many of your questions about the opposite sex.  It is a journey to be sure.  Today I answer a question about why girls sometimes dress provocatively and also about how guys sometimes brag about the girls they are with.  Both touchy subjects, but I hope that…

can you trust anyone

Can I Trust Anyone as a Boyfriend/Girlfriend?

Are You Wondering If You Can Trust Anyone? You have questions about the opposite sex, things that drive you crazy about guys, and things you can’t figure out about girls. These kinds of questions are what I’m answering in this series of blogs. But I can’t do this without you, so thanks for sending me…