Dating

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When An Ex Won’t Leave You Alone

Breaking up with your boyfriend or girlfriend is hard to do. But it’s even more difficult when your ex won’t leave you alone after the breakup. I figure there are at least two different reasons why an ex won’t let go. Either they want to get back together with you, or they are just trying to get…

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How to Break Up

How To Break Up: 16 Do’s and Don’ts One of the most painful experiences in life is the ending of a meaningful relationship, especially where there has been a romance. People who call my radio shows always tell me stories about really heart-breaking endings to their relationships. Wouldn’t it be amazing if somebody were to…

Unhappy girl on a bed. An object of Lust

Comparing Love vs. Lust

Love Gives, Lust Takes A relationship based on lust can be devastating. It’s impossible to know how many people’s lives have been really messed up because of lust. I do know lust has left a lot of people as hurting victims. Amy sent me a poem this week about lust. It’s pretty deep. Got me…

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Why Lust is Destructive

2 Reasons Lust Is Destructive Everyone currently dating needs to ask the question…Am I in love or am I in lust? Whatever you do, don’t mess up on this question or you will walk into a world of hurt. Lust literally means over-desire. It is when you take something that is good, twist it, and…

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Friends With Benefits

I have decided to blog on the whole subject of “friends with benefits” because it has become so huge in our culture, especially among high school and college students. Plus, the phrase itself got me thinking. I mean, who really benefits? Is it a 50/50 benefit? What is the actual BENEFIT? Can there be friends…