Question 1

How Can I Move on if My Friend Died By Suicide?

Accepted Answer

Suicide grief is one of the hardest things we can face in life. But if a friend or a family member died by suicide, things will not be hopeless or overwhelming forever. Understanding our freelings and how they change can help us heal after a friend or loved one dies by suicide. You don't have to deal with this alone.

Question 2

How Do I Support My Parents if My Sibling Is Suicidal?

Accepted Answer

If your brother or sister is suicidal, there is still hope. Suicide is preventable, and you can help them find support, along with reminding them how much you care about them. If your parents need encouragement during this time, you can reach out to them. Just remember to make sure your emotional and spiritual needs are taken care of, too.

Question 3

Sexual Assault: A Rape Survivor&#8217;s Story

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It is normal to feel many things after being raped, but there is hope. With emotional support, and appropriate medical and psychological treatment, people recovering from sexual assault can regain feelings of joy and can lead happy and healthy lives. It is possible to take your life back and you can walk in truth and freedom to fulfill your dreams and destiny." Read Sarah's story of survival and healing.

Question 4

Are More People Depressed During the COVID-19 Pandemic?

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While you may have struggled with depression, anxiety, PTSD, or suicidal thoughts before the pandemic, you may also be among the many people for whom mental health issues have gotten worse since isolating and social distancing. You are not alone, and there are many options when it comes to treatment and resources.

Question 5

How Do We Pray for Peace in Difficult Times?

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The world isn’t a very peaceful place. Wars seem to always be raging, environmental disasters force people to evacuate their homes, and there seems to be more political and social upheaval now than at any time in recent history. This lack of peace around us can soon become a lack of peace within us. Praying for peace is one way we can regain a sense of calm in the face of fear and uncertainty. It can also help us to become a more peaceful presence in the lives of people around us.  So what do we do? How do we pray for peace in difficult times?

Question 6

Bad Breakup: She Searched for an Easy, Painless Death

Accepted Answer

“Don't worry. Life changes, but you need to have perseverance. Never give up on this life.” Those words stopped me that day and changed my life! There are still a few moments where I feel weak and I've wanted to give up, but let me remind you of this: You need to water yourself to stand straight even under the direct sun. Take as much water as you need every day.

Question 7

SUICIDE- 10 Facts You Need to Know

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A nationwide survey of high school students in the United States found that 16% of students reported seriously considering suicide. If you haven’t thought about killing yourself, chances are you know someone who has. If our blogs, podcasts, and ebooks on suicide can help one person turn away from taking their life, it will all be worth it. We're here right now if you need us.

Question 8

Why Say No To Suicide?

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"Here are 4 reasons to keep working at life:

1. Do you know for certain what the future holds? What if you miss out on something GREAT?
2. Someone DOES care.
3. You can help others and perhaps save someone’s life.
4. God loves you.

Don't give up. You can get help for depression and suicidal thoughts right now."

Question 9

Bible Verses About God Accepting Everyone

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“I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners to repentance.” (Luke 5:32) Have you ever thought, "God could never love me. I've messed up too bad. My sins are too big. I am too ashamed. I am too broken." But God says throughout the Bible that He welcomes everyone who comes to Him. The Bible is full of verses that talk about God accepting everyone.

Question 10

Suicidal Thoughts: I Can&#8217;t Live (Like This) Anymore

Accepted Answer

My dad and I were having issues at the time. .  . He threatened to call my grandpa, which was most likely going to get my grandpa in trouble. I was still holding the knife, so I pointed it toward my dad. I don't remember how my mom got the knife out of my hands, but she did. That night was a turning point in my life. It really scared me." Read how Scott found healing.

Question 11

4 Things You Can Do When You are Feeling Hopeless

Accepted Answer

When you are feeling hopeless:

- Find simple pleasures.
- Search for good news.
- Lean on faith and prayer.
- Seek encouragement from people you know and trust. 

Stopping hopelessness takes practice, but it is definitely possible to find healing. Plenty of people have found a greater sense of hope by patiently making small changes, and there are people available to help you get through this.

Question 12

Don&#8217;t Lose Hope In Tough Times. There Is More.

Accepted Answer

When you're losing hope, it's not always helpful to have someone tell you what to do or explain where you went wrong. You need someone to listen, to be there for you, and to remind you that you were created for a purpose. I rediscovered my sense of hope in a dark time by talking with a HopeCoach.

Question 13

How Can I Make Loneliness Go Away?

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Overcoming loneliness is a process, not a one-time decision. Each day, it’s important to remind yourself of your worth. You are lovable and worthy of love, and you have people in your life who are ready and willing to affirm that. Reaching out to people for support helps a lot, too. Start with friends and family you trust. Let them know how you’re feeling. If you want to spend time with them, ask. People care and will do what they can to help.

Question 14

Faith When Life Is Hard: God Understands Your Pain

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"“. . .we have one who has been tempted in every way, just as we are—yet he did not sin. Let us then approach God’s throne of grace with confidence. . . (Heb 4:15-16)”

God understands our weaknesses, and has experienced them in His own way. This means we can feel more confident reaching out to Him for help, no matter what we are going through or how much we are struggling."

Question 15

What to Do When Guy Says: “Date Me or I’ll Kill Myself?”

Accepted Answer

If he kills himself, he’s going to kill himself because he’s a very troubled young man, not whether or not you dated him. You're not responsible for him. You're not responsible for making him happy under the threat of death or suicide. If you or a friend need support right now, call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-8255, for free confidential, 24/7 help.

Question 16

7 Life Lessons from a Suicide Survivor

Accepted Answer

Although I am the healthiest I've ever been, I will continue to live with mental illness for the rest of my life. But the struggle (or wrestling) is sacred because it teaches me more about myself and reminds me of the compassion of a God who chooses to sit with me during hard times. When I feel tempted by thoughts of suicide, prayer is one of the things that brings me back from the brink.

Question 17

A Daughter&#8217;s Journey: The Loss of My Father to Suicide

Accepted Answer

"Here's how Sarah felt after losing her father to suicide:

""The initial feelings I had after my dad died were anger, misunderstanding, resentment, sadness, and emptiness. Something that has helped me since losing my dad has been writing notes to him…sometimes they are feelings that I don't want to hold on to anymore."" 

If you're going through this, you're not alone."

Question 18

6 Emotions Survivors of Suicide Loss Face

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"Grieving a loved one's death by suicide may include:
- Feeling disconnected from reality
- Feelings of guilt and failure 
- Feeling desperate to ""make sense of it""
- Sense of abandonment, rejection, or betrayal
- Anger
There is still a stigma around suicide loss, but there are plenty of safe spaces to talk about and process suicide grief.

Question 19

Suicide: Giving Life Another Chance

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I’ve talked to many people, of all ages, and from all backgrounds, who have recovered from suicidal thoughts. And I’ve reconnected with my own sense of purpose after struggling through dark times. What helps most? Remembering people who love you, and things about your life you enjoy. Remembering there’s only one you, and that just your being you brings happiness to others. Sometimes, even with this encouragement, it’s still hard. If you are struggling with thoughts of suicide or find yourself making plans, U.S. residents can call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or text “START” to 741741. If you love outside of the United States, contact the International Crisis Center in your home country. Here are the reasons to Give Life Another Chance.

Question 20

Red Flags, but Married Him Anyway

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Some people get divorced because abuse makes them feel unsafe. Others feel trapped by their partner’s addiction. Perhaps there has been infidelity in the relationship. Whatever the reason, divorce can be devastating for everyone in a family. Make sure you have the support you need. If you don’t know where to turn, start with TheHopeLine.  Jewel did. Here's her story.

Question 21

My Sister&#8217;s Battle with Mental Illness Gave Me a Purpose

Accepted Answer

This is my story and as odd as it sounds, I am grateful that my grief has taken me down this journey because it has put me in the position to understand what people feel when they are struggling. It helps me see the world from a new perspective. And most of all, it helps me to truly understand that God is faithful.

Question 22

I Can&#8217;t Let a Broken Heart Break My Life

Accepted Answer

I can't let a broken heart break my life. There is a choice between giving in to my pain or giving it all to God. I choose the second. I decided to let God give me the strength to endure my moment of pain, to let God walk with me in my darkest time, to let Him hold my hand and show me the way to deal with my brokenness.

Question 23

Just a Bad Week or Depression? How to Tell the Difference

Accepted Answer

First, it’s a good idea to know some specific clinical depression symptoms:

- Feeling sad, weepy, worthless or empty (and unable to explain it)
- Significant weight loss or gain within the last few months
- Sleep problems 
- Thoughts/plans of death, dying, or suicide
- Losing interest in your favorite activities
- Irritability
- Difficulty concentrating or making decisions

If these last for weeks at a time, it may be depression, rather than just a bad week.

Question 24

Bible Verses for Depression &#8211; Get Help from God

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"You keep track of all my sorrows. You have collected all my tears in your bottle. You have recorded each one in your book." (Psalm 56:8) God cares about you, and He can handle all the painful emotions that come with depression and the challenges of mental illness. There are many Bible verses that can encourage people with depression, and help lift your spirits.

Question 25

How Can I Find Hope?

Accepted Answer

"When you have a hard time finding hope, remember these four truths about yourself and your life:

- Things will get better.
- You have a purpose to fulfill.
- There is a plan for your life.
- You are cared for.

If you're losing hope, finding encouraging ways to remember these things can get you back on track. Learn more. . ."

Question 26

Bible Verses About Suicidal Thoughts &#8211; Get Hope from God

Accepted Answer

God is a God of hope! If you have suicidal thoughts, He loves you and wants you to choose life,“Today I have given you the choice between life and death. . .Oh, that you would choose life, so that you and your descendants might live!" (Duet 30:19-20). Learn what the Bible says about suicidal thoughts and get help now.

Question 27

Bible Verses for Self-Acceptance When You Hate Yourself

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"For we are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago." (Ephesians 2:10, NLT) How does it make you feel to know that you are God's masterpiece? If you struggle with hating yourself, these Bible verses can help you learn to love yourself again.

Question 28

Life is Worth Fighting For

Accepted Answer

"If I had died the first time I desperately wanted to, I would not have been able to make the small mark on the world that I have made. I wouldn't have the honor of helping those whom I have gotten the chance to help. . .In my wildest dreams I never thought that my life would change, but it did!" Read Leah's real story of hope.

Question 29

5 Amazing Reasons Why You Matter

Accepted Answer

Sometimes you feel like you are not good enough, perhaps because of certain challenges that may make you give into self-doubt and self-hatred. The good news is you are not alone; we all have moments like that in our lives. If you've lost your self-worth and confidence, here are some ways to remember you matter.

Question 30

5 Things to Never Say to Someone Who&#8217;s Depressed

Accepted Answer

5 things to AVOID saying to a mentally ill person:

1. What do you have to be depressed about?
2. Happiness is a choice. You just need to change your mindset and focus on the positive.
3. You don't need medication.
4. You're depressed again?
5. Are you reading your Bible enough? Are you praying enough?

Do your best to listen to your friend or family member without judgement. Remember, just being there and showing care will make a difference.

Question 31

What To Do When You Hate Yourself &#8211; 5 Tips

Accepted Answer

Self-hate is easy to fall into, but it is possible to stop hating yourself. When you feel or say things like, “I hate myself", "I'm no good", "I'm so stupid", or, "I'm worthless”, you don't have to stay trapped in self-hatred. Here are some steps you can take today to stop hating yourself and start feeling more hopeful.

Question 32

What to Do if You Want To Kill Yourself &#038; Feel Suicidal

Accepted Answer

If you feel suicidal, you can get help right now. You can call or chat with the Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-8255 or www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org anytime, day or night. Your contract for life partner is someone to call when you're struggling with suicidal thoughts that can help you remember your safety plan, and put it into practice.

Question 33

How To Help A Suicidal Friend

Accepted Answer

If you think your friend is suicidal, here are some of the signs to watch for. A suicidal friend may: 
- Talk about suicide, death, and/or having no reason to live
- Withdraw from friends or social activities
- Try to give away things they value most
Knowing the signs of suicidal thoughts may help you support your friend as they find healing and support.

Question 34

Why Do People End Their Life by Suicide?

Accepted Answer

"People likely end up dying by suicide because they thought:
- ""There is no one I can talk to about my pain.""
- ""I want to give up.""
- ""Telling someone I am suicidal will be too much for them to handle.""
- ""I am struggling with addiction and feel trapped, like I've hit rock bottom.""
If you feel suicidal, you can get help immediately. Call  1-800-273-8255 24/7/365."

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