How To Recognize & Recover from Addiction

If you can’t stop using substances or engaging in behaviors that harm your mind, body, and relationships, don’t give up hope. You’ve found a place to get help for your addiction.

How Do I Know if I Have an Addiction?

According to The American Psychiatric Association (APA), addiction (also known as severe substance abuse disorder) goes deeper than series of negative behavior:

“Addiction is a complex condition, a brain disease that is manifested by compulsive substance use despite harmful consequence.”

If you have addiction, your focus on using addictive substances or behaviors to cope is so fixed that it takes over your life. In fact, you continue to do so, in spite of how it’s hurting you, your relationships, your work/academic performance, and your ability to connect with others.

TheHopeLine supports many people addicted to drugs and alcohol, but addiction can manifest itself in other ways. You could have an addiction to:

While all of us make choices that influence our lives, addiction is more than a string of bad choices. Understanding some of the reasons addiction happens is key to freeing yourself from shame and shifting your focus to recovery.

Why Do I Have an Addiction?

We are responsible for our choices. But addictive behavior feels so difficult to stop because your brain is wired differently.

According to the same report by the APA, “Changes in the brain’s wiring are what cause people to have intense cravings for the drug and make it hard to stop using the drug. Brain imaging studies show changes in the areas of the brain that relate to judgment, decision making, learning, memory and behavior control.”

This atypical wiring may be there because of genetics or a diagnosis of mental illness. But continually using the addictive substance (or engaging in the addictive behavior) can also further cement those neural paths.

Can I Recover from Addiction or Relapse?

With what we know about addiction, it can seem like you’re trapped by substance use or destructive behaviors once you start down that path. But the truth is far more freeing. You can recover from addiction (and after relapse into addiction). And you can start today.

Admit you have an addiction: Understanding you have an addiction, and that it harms you and your relationships, is a critical step toward recovery.

Know what tempts you toward addiction: For every temptation, there is always a way out.

“No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can endure it” (1 Corinthians 10:13). Knowing the people, circumstances, places, actions, and feelings that trigger your addictive behavior can help you make a plan to stop and turn you toward healthier coping strategies.

Ask for support: There are many caring experts and professionals uniquely qualified to mentor and support people with addictions. If you’re looking for help from people who have proven results with lasting addiction recovery, you’ve come to the right place.

We are here. We support you. And you can be free. It’s time to get the help you need to break the cycle and heal from addiction.

Learn more about addiction and recovery by searching our blogs, ebooks, podcasts, and other resources:

  • Can people truly recover from addiction?
  • How does addiction develop over time?
  • What do I do if I’m in a relationship with an addict?
  • How do I succeed in addiction recovery?
  • What do I do when I want to get clean and sober?

FAQ on Addiction:

Is it Okay to Be Upset with an Alcoholic Sibling?

Having a sibling who is addicted to alcohol is upsetting, and it is valid to feel hurt when unhealthy behavior related to their addiction impacts you. Being upset doesn’t mean you hate them, and it doesn’t mean you don’t care about their illness. If you feel unsafe talking directly to your sibling about your feelings, a counselor or mentor can help you manage these complicated emotions so you can find greater healing and avoid bottling things up.

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