Guard Your Heart TRUE BEAUTY EDITION
We live in a body obsessed culture. Men and women both feel pressured to have the perfect bodies, and we believe so many lies about what a perfect body is and what defines beauty.
As I continue to talk about guarding our hearts another way we can protect ourselves is to know the TRUTH about beauty and not believe the lies and photo-shopped images that we are surrounded by daily.
Guarding your heart requires you to Fill your heart with TRUTH and cling to that truth when the world tells you lies.
Lie #1 My worth and my beauty is measured by a number on the scale, the size of my jeans, the size of my biceps.
- Truth – I’ve said this before, but I need to repeat it – your worth is defined by one thing and one thing only…by a God who loves you and who created you wonderfully! If only we could grasp the greatness of God who created the entire universe and yet LOVES little old you and me so much that He knew us before we were born and designed us perfectly, THEN we might understand our worth beyond a number. And not to sound cliche but beauty really is a matter of the heart. I believe it is absolutely true that the most attractive person in the room is the one with a smile on their face exuding kindness and confidence. Not the person in the latest fashions whose all done up, but spewing hate.
- Heart Protection By having a confidence that comes from knowing our value in God’s eyes and expressing our confidence through kindness and joy, we will exude true beauty. Our confidence will no longer rely on an ever changing number on the scale.
Lie #2 The Sports Illustrated swimsuit model or the guy on the cover of GQ magazine is the definition of attractive and what I need to strive for.
- Truth The images of beauty that we see on the cover of magazines are unrealistic and often unattainable. Want proof? Watch this:
- Heart Protection By realizing that the images you see daily in the media are highly touched up, you will protect yourself from trying to live up to a standard that is unrealistic. Stop being so hard on yourself when you look in the mirror. See those pictures for the lies that they are. Set healthy expectations for yourself and believe the true definition of beauty as defined above.
Lie #3 – I need to dress provocatively in order to get a guy’s attention. Guys like girls who show some skin.
- Truth A good guy respects modesty. I have heard it said like this, Dressing immodestly is like rolling around in manure. Yes, you’ll get attention, but mostly from pigs. I like that!
- Heart Protection If you believe that good guys respect modesty, you won’t feel the pressure to dress inappropriately, and by holding yourself to a higher standard, you won’t set yourself up to be treated like an object. YOU DESERVE MORE. If a guy is only paying attention to you when you dress a certain way he is likely not a guy who is going to respect you later. The Bible offers a very practical analogy on this very subject when it says A beautiful woman who lacks modesty is like a fine gold ring in a pig’s snout. In other words don’t ruin your beauty by revealing too much. By holding yourself to a higher standard, you won’t set yourself up to be treated like an object
Here is one of the best descriptions of beauty that I’ve read: She is a woman of strength and dignity and has no fear of old age. When she speaks, her words are wise, and kindness is the rule for everything she says. Let’s strive for that kind of beauty.